In years past, closed adoptions were more common but today, many birthmothers are not choosing this option when they place their newborn for adoption. A closed adoption is when the birth mother and adoptive family have very limited contact. The adoptive family still receives medical records in closed adoptions, but personal information is removed.

A semi-open adoption is between a closed and open adoption and refers to the kind of adoption where there is not as much contact between the birth mother and the adoptive family. Sometimes, personal information is not shared and contact is limited. These kinds of adoptions really depend on the preference of the birth mother, but oftentimes, information is shared through a private website, Facebook or Instagram account so you are able to see photos and updates of your child in a private setting. Sometimes, photos are shared through the agency so that you do not have direct contact with the adoptive family. In semi-open adoptions there is typically not extensive visitation between the birth mother and adoptive family.

An open adoption conveys contact between the birth mother and the adoptive family as well as shared personal information. There are various level of openness in an open adoption. An open adoption may include contact before the birth while the expectant mother is pregnant and after once the baby is born like phone calls, emails and face to face visits. Ultimately, the birth mother chooses what level of communication she wants, and we work to find a family that shares the same ideals.

Today in some states including Pennsylvania, there are post adoption contact agreements that are legally enforceable by the Court. These documents spell out in great detail the arrangements that allow contact between the adoptive family and the birthparents after the child’s adoption has been finalized. PACA is an option to you as the birthmother, but informal adoption agreements are also yours to consider. It’s your baby. It’s your choice.